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Why does arguing with your child give him power? When you engage in fights with your child, over time he will begin to believe that he is your peer and that he has the power to challenge you. This is a loaded situation because your child doesn't realize that this empowerment he's feeling isn't real. The more powerful he thinks he is (and the more the defiant behavior gets him what he wants) the more he will use fighting as a way to solve his problems. It's important to learn how to manage this type of behavior in your kids. This isn't easy - in fact, it's probably one of the most difficult things you have to learn as a parent. The lesson here is, "How can I let my child mature and individuate with the least amount of fights possible?" Remember, the goal here is for your child to learn how to be responsible, communicate well with others, and develop problem-solving skills. Let me be clear: there is a difference between a disagreement and a habitual pattern of arguing with your child. You want to teach your kids appropriate ways to communicate a disagreement. Knowing how to express disagreements in an effective way is an important life skill. Generally, it's best to talk about things you don't agree on when both of you are calm. Your child should learn how to state his or her point of view in a respectful way (without name-calling or being rude). Listening is also a critical skill here, because you want to be able to hear what the other person has to say without negating (否定) them or becoming defensive. In the end, you may not change your mind, but at least each side has spoken and been heard.【缺少答案,请补充】
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